Goodbye Buddy…R.I.P ❤️ Pet Loss And Grief!

In this heartfelt video, I share a deeply personal story about the loss of my beloved dog, Buddy, and the impact he had on my life and the lives of many of you who worked out alongside him. Losing a pet is a painful experience, and if you're grieving a pet or struggling with how to cope with pet loss, I hope my journey brings you some comfort. Buddy brought so much joy, and his absence is a profound loss that has left me reflecting on the lessons and love he brought into my life. Join me as I navigate the grief, gratitude, and countless emotions that come with saying goodbye to my angel. I'd love to hear your stories about your pets and the special bond you share with them. Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. #petlosssupportgroup #dealingwithpetdeath #supportforpetowners #petlover

CHAPTERS:
00:00 – The hardest video I've ever had to make
00:46 – The joy Buddy brought into my life
04:59 – The night Buddy passed away

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  • @sunshinegal4294 says:

    I’m soooo sorry! I just lost my Ellie 3 weeks ago today. She was my life, my bestie, sunshine, joy, companion, door greeter, my lapdog, my spirit watcher, shadow always beside me and I’m heartbroken. I had her with me for almost 13 years. I still cry every day missing her. I’m so grateful for every day she gave me. I hear you about missing them every day. I’m single, kids are grown and she was my world. I can relate to what you are saying. I don’t know how long it’s going to take me to heal. This is the deepest grief and sorrow I’ve ever felt in my life.

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I haven’t even been able to share my loss and what happened yet to others. Thank you for sharing about Buddy.

    • @sandradelaney206 says:

      💙

    • @SuePenn says:

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @peb5103 says:

      💙

    • @nicolaj3294 says:

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @pjmiller8632 says:

      I’m so sorry for your loss. The only thing that helped our pain and sorrow was realizing we had a very empty home and deafening silence after our loss. We knew we could help a homeless pet that was scared and lonely in a shelter. That’s just what we did 7 years ago. Charlie is a beautiful, kind, caring and loving rescue, and is no longer stuck in a cage, wondering what he ever did so wrong, to be there. He shows us unconditional love every day in return. We love him right back. It’s a win win, and we know our Bear would be very happy about us helping and rescuing a fellow fur friend that we’re quite sure he somehow played a part in. Hugs to you. ❤

  • @dowzoo says:

    It’s hard to believe you’ve reached this stage of your life and never had a pet die. It doesn’t get any easier, it always hurts. I’m sorry.

    • @helenabok1610 says:

      Yes, you never get used to losing your pet. It’s getting harder. It’s heartbreaking every time.

    • @PatchAhberly says:

      ​@@helenabok1610I was literally suicidal. 3 years later and I still have bad days where I just cry all day. I’m just so thankful for the time that I had with them. It does get impossible to move on and you don’t want to have to replace your pet. The only thing that really changes is your ability changes to understand the necessity of what you had to do. But it never gets easy

    • @carollund8251 says:

      ​@@PatchAhberlyYes my dog died 4 years ago, the first six months or so I could hardly function. Every time I drove home I would stop the car just before pulling into the driveway and cry because the thought of her not coming out to greet me was just too devastating..And I still have bad days and cry for hours. The other day I was straightening out the sofa and suddenly started thinking about how I wouldn’t let her jump on it because it was new and she had pretty much ruined the old one, and I felt so guilty I wanted to die. I finally tried after 3 years to walk in the woods where we used to go and just broke down and cried and cried. We buried her in the back yard, she has a rose bush over her and flowers and herbs all around and I sit on a bench by her and talk to her and read to her .People tell me ” get another dog” and they don’t understand how insensitive that is..She cannot be “replaced”, she was my baby and always will be.

    • @LinaPietromonaco says:

      Hello Shellae my heart breaks for you and the loss you are feeling. We lost our two toy poodles in May & June 2023 (6 weeks apart). My gorgeous girl was 15 (she passed on her birthday). She had a seizure and didn’t recover and she also was brain dead. It was the most difficult decision I’ve made to have her euthanised. Six weeks later her brother passed (he would’ve been 18 in August of the same year). They were inseparable. Over the last several years I was in very poor health and the love & support they gave me during this time was what got me through. They were with me 24×7. To this day I still grieve for them both so very much. I still feel their presence every day. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 💗🐾💗🐾

    • @PatchAhberly says:

      @LinaPietromonaco  yeah it’s crazy how fast a dog will deteriorate after a mate’s death. And people tell you that you will recover but you really never do. For me I sometimes have really good weeks, and then just out of the blue I start grieving again. And then when I start grieving I start grieving all of my dogs I’ve lost over the years and I start grieving my 4 brothers and my half-sister, and my mother all over again. I just can’t pull the trigger and get another dog. It just seems too hard and I think my mind is going to be worrying about the new dog dying one day, and I just think it will weigh on my mind everyday. Life is messed up.

  • @diannejarrett6185 says:

    My heart is breaking for you.
    RIP georgeous Buddy.
    You will be missed so much.
    😢

  • @valferguson8322 says:

    I’m so sorry!! My last kitty of 3 passed in April. Had to put her to sleep. We had her for 25 yrs.. House felt so empty w/oatmeal kitty romping stounf.. so June 1st we got another kitty from our local shelter. She’s 3 yrs old. We named her Molly… she’s such a delight!!, she’s a torte.. the most well behaved kitty I ever ever had!! Does nothing wrong!! Her little face is adorable! She’s brought joy back into my life!! She seems to have “traits” from ra of my 3 kitties. One was a Sphynx kitty!! He was just like having a baby in the house!!
    So blessed to have Molly now, she’s quite spoiled, but such a sweet and good girl!! I’ve had to put several kitties to sleep in my life so far. Such a feeling of emptiness in the house!! I’ll always have a cat!! Doing a lot to keep her happy n healthy. For many yrs to come.
    My prayers are with you!! 🐈‍⬛💗

    • @gailnightowl0423 says:

      Wow, 25 yrs is a really long time to have a kitty. I’m so sorry you lost oatmeal. 😢

    • @valferguson8322 says:

      @@gailnightowl0423 hahaha! That was a spell ck error! No oatmeal!! Should have been w/o a kitty in the house!! The 25 yr old’s name was Paris Hilton!!, she was my son’s kitty for a few months before he had to give her away to me because his landlord wouldn’t allow cats but was ok w/3 Great Danes!! All 3 cats came from that household!!
      Thanks for your kind words.
      Our Sphynx was 16 when he passed away (they generally only live to be around 11 yrs old!! And our sweet gray tabby was only 8 when he passed!
      They were all very happy babies, and quite spoiled!!

    • @feliciahawkins5378 says:

      Love the name. That was a fancy cat to be called Paris Hilton😊

    • @valferguson8322 says:

      @ hahaha! Yeah. She was a very small Maine Coon kitty. My little Sphynx was named Bobo. Our sweet tabby was called Buddha. The only one we named was Bobo!! All three cats came to me from my son or his roommates!! Landlords it wanting cats!!
      I pray your deep sadness leaves soon n you just have wonderful memories of your Buddy. Perhaps you’ll want another little pal to make your life filled with love n cuddles you definitely get from having a pet… 🌺❤️

  • @sandradelaney206 says:

    Sitting here with tears streaming down my face Shellea…so sorry for your loss…I lost my 11 year old beautiful Border Collie girl Bress last month. I woke to a crashing noise at 8am, having said goodnight to my 2 dogs the night before in the wee small hours….everything seemed normal when I went to bed. I woke to find my younger dog (I have her older brother from the first litter too) staggering around and falling over, while intermittently having seizures. She had never had a seizure before, or displayed any signs of ill health whatsoever. A beautiful, bright soul who always instinctively knew when I needed a bit of extra love….I always said that her brother was my pride and she was my joy.

    When the vet arrived at my house, she said that Bress had gone into statis epilepticus…and had definitely suffered some sort of brain injury. As I lay there in the rain on the drive of my house, holding my dog, with snot and tears flowing, I nearly begged the vet to put her out of her misery…my poor bright girl was suffering dreadfully and I could not bear to see her in this way. Her brother had gone hiding down the garden, he seemed traumatised by seeing his playmate suffering also. The whole episode lasted an hour and 20 minutes, and by the end, my gorgeous girl was gone. Such a shock.

    Even though I still have her brother, Bress has left an awful hole in our household. I have no children, so my pets are my family….I totally understand the loss of certain emotions triggered by our companion animals, after their death. Bress was a live wire…very energetic and super clever…the bane of my life sometimes, but also my greatest source of laughter, as I watched her and her antics. She is buried in my garden, and when I stand by her grave, I say ‘rest in joy Bress’….as peace was often in short supply, while she lived! I’m so grateful that I knew her…one of the purest souls I’ve ever had the good fortune to know.

    Sorry for the long comment…I needed to share that, to honour the loss of one of my best friends.

    • @bernadettecaullay5947 says:

      So sorry for your loss…I’ve lost two now and it always hurts losing a precious pet. Hugs.

    • @ilenet9911 says:

      Sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved golden doodle the end of September. He was only 6 1/2. It was sudden. Stopped eating and in a week he died from chronic hepatitis. My family and myself are heartbroken. Crying every day and not functioning. We rescued a dog 3 days ago and while we are still grieving, we are doing a little better.

    • @sandradelaney206 says:

      @@bernadettecaullay5947 Thank you… 💙

    • @sandradelaney206 says:

      @@ilenet9911 Thank you…I wish you well while you get to know your new best friend….even while you get along without your old one…they all bring their own light. 💙

  • @melissageno4591 says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

    Please consider rescuing a homeless dog. He would want you to fill the empty space in your heart. ❤

  • @rosemarydombroski4319 says:

    Although Buddy’s life was short he knew a lot of love in his time with you and your family.

  • @kimpimentel3203 says:

    I am so sorry for the loss of your fur baby. I loved seeing him during your workouts. RIP dear Buddy ❤🦮

  • @rosaquiroz2343 says:

    I totally agree with you,they are not pets for us,they are part of the family a blessing from God.

  • @velmacoen4485 says:

    I am 71. I lost my little guy after 17 years. It was the first time for me too. I have lost so many people in my lifetime, but that was my first dog. He too had seizures …… And its terribly scary. His trachea was collapsing. Until he couldn’t stop coughing….. I rushed him to the vet too…and had to make that decision. Very, very difficult! A decision I had hoped I’d never have to make. You describe having a pet so accurately. They are beside you 24/7. And they depend on you. It’s a very difficult loss….i still miss him. His 15 year old Buddy is still with me. I’m so grateful to have him, and try not to think about losing him. Your Buddy was just darling!!! I remember seeing him when you brought him home. My heart goes out to you. ❤️

  • @lindambird2180 says:

    So very sorry for your loss, I thoroughly enjoyed watching you and Buddy while doing your sessions.. 🐦💖

  • @livingawordfilledlife says:

    Sending love and prayers. Pets are family too. Thanks for sharing your heart with us.

  • @karenmiller976 says:

    Oh no. I am so, so sorry. I loved seeing sweet Buddy during our workouts!

  • @JMB-sassysixty says:

    I’m writing this comment with tears streaming down my cheeks. I’m so sorry for your loss of Buddy! I will miss seeing his little face while working out with you. Everything you said is so true. Pets love unconditionally. My little dog is 11yrs and I got her as a puppy a few months after my Mom died. My little dog has been by my side in happy and sad times. I will be a mess when it’s her time to pass! I have had to make the gut wrenching decision to put a pet down several times. As hard as it is to make that decision it’s really the humane thing to do. Buddy will be with you always. Much love and take care! 🐾❤

  • @normalopezingle7732 says:

    Its so hard to lose a pet, they are so much a part of our families. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @brendabustos2590 says:

    I am so sorry for the loss of your playful Buddy! Thank you for sharing…❤

  • @joyleneseppala2734 says:

    So sorry to hear about Buddy, it was so lovely doing the workouts with him. RIP Buddy 🐶❤

  • @triarb5790 says:

    Oh bless. What a hard message to give. Thankyou for sharing your difficult news. Take care xxx

  • @willow9790 says:

    Although Buddy was with you for part of your life you were there for all of his life. Sleep peacefully Buddy

  • @TinaBark-v6d says:

    Pure joy will be watching down from heaven.

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